Tips to have a lot of friends, for the happiness of life

Good morning all, good sense of humor so I can still read the blog story and motivation this time I will discuss in my opinion worth the talk about in this blog that is titled tips have many friends, a friend is someone who could accompany us and we can make comfortable when bergaul.itu definitions according to befriend me during this, the most important thing is how much your friend? may of you will answer from hundreds, thousands even tens friend who just had a friend on the same campus in the village for example ..
Why do we need friends? befriended one of the activities that can bring benefits, I'll explain that one at my tired, which is obviously very much at all from start helping our difficulties, knowledge sharing and chat while their own friends and many many friends lainya.berapa normally we should have ? if I should charge as much if I could, because actually there is no provision on how many friends we have had,
Friends not only in the environment we live alone, we can make friends with people from outside the city, outside the island and even abroad, to make friends with a friend at the local neighborhood we could manfaatin social media sites such as FACEBOOK, Friendster, TWITTER to make friends with people outside country can use SKYPE, omegle (chat site), AOL, and others, depending on our creativity.and one more active in local forums like KASKUS, SECONDS, Indowebster, etc..
Well, then how do we could have a lot of friends?This jawbanya: Tips have many friends
-Active in the organization that you like of course, with your active you will often see a lot of people in your every ground coffee with your organization, continue to talk to fellow members to become more familiar.
-Avoid excessive emotion, especially emotion of anger with anger emotion which can cause discomfort for your friend, that every conflict resolved in friendship with anger, there will be a split, it strengthens the cohesiveness you so rarely great conflict.
-Make friends with whoever we want, do not vote, because he is rich or because he's smart, or a tribe or or or the other, to be friends, but the friendship has to remember the position of our friends also have to respect us as a friend do not want to be in the monthly, because you are too silent.
-Balance with friends in cyberspace, cyberspace but initially did not rule out the possibility of one day see the invite, and since we are already familiar in the virtual world, then live in a little polishing so surely your real friends
-Do not forget friends elementary, junior high, high school guys, keep call them because if you still berubungan will greatly help us when we are old and living at home, as most friends elementary, junior high, high school we are not far from the house where we live .
likely that much can be used to find a lot of tips sampikan kaitanya teman.mungkin if anyone want nambahin can be written right in my later re-type your comments in the post, thank you
"BETTER HAVE ONE FRIEND, ENEMY OF THE 1000"

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How to become a good leader figure

A leader who always people imagine is a hulking figure, surly or fierce, and mustachioed, with a high tone and firm, when in fact it is not always like that. a leader that ideal? because obviously in this world nothing is perfect because there is no quest for the perfect leader that how? so we are looking for an ideal figure who is able to lead, either in the organization or the other.

the figure of the ideal leader is usually not separated from the 5 following properties:
1.Orator
2.Motivator
3.Empati
4.Visioner
5.adamant
means no need to proclaim his orator - koar like people who are giving speeches in front of Senayan demanding justice, or when talking to Labor Day lifeblood out, maksudnyaadalah voice had to be heard and implemented by its members without speaking in a tone loud and long,

meaningful and self motivator a leader not to lose the spirit, how can send or influence others, that he himself could not keep his motivation, yes it is the condition one may not a good mood every day, there are times when family problems was to carry on the business of the office, and when this condition the attitude of a leader should be able to hide kegalauanya.

so leaders have to empathize, do not be a dictator and tend arrogant, leaders must be able to understand what is actually being alami.dan members as much as possible to give the best solution, so it is not just angry - angry that less than the maximum of its members in performing their duties.

which is not less important, an organization if it runs without vision probably will not last long, because it will not know where are they taking this organization nantinya.dan if you have a vision, an organization needs someone visionary leader, the thought that far ahead, able to think of something with the smallest risk for the betterment of the organization.

the latter is decisive, assertive does not mean fierce here, because it's where the firm commitment must be maintained from the beginning, where the agreement was first made, if A can not be C, if its deadline on Thursday, ya do not have to be so on Saturday.

we have discussed for the ideal look for a leader who is not perfect ya?., and I explained several points that I think is important to have a leader.

"Will actually question your leadership"

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How to avoid promiscuity, and their impact

Before starting the discussion of how to avoid promiscuity, perhaps I will describe first understanding where promiscuity promiscuous intercourse which tends to mean irregular, if the Java language word meaning sack penak'e dewe irregular too close to the bad morals, because liberated it usually passes within reasonable limits, promiscuity can also be conditioned as deviant behavior which is caused from a variety of factors that influence them:
-Lack of parental-Lack of education and knowledge-Disappointment-Lamah in religious-Got a friend invitation
promiscuity has serious consequences that should be avoided by humans in order to have healthy relationships, the impact of promiscuity among the productive age is
-Smoke-Drink alcoholic beverages-GamblingFree-sex
And healthy relationships that can be created with a variety of positive activities, but nevertheless we try to avoid it, as if they were our shadow looming large in their daily lives, then what steps we are to look for a healthy environment for us.The following I will present some points the way so that you avoid promiscuity.
1.mengisi free time with positive activities, it could be doing school work / college, explore the science of religion, join social activities, because by doing positive activities and will always feel you padat.dari time on your wandering and chatting is not important it will be easy you fall into promiscuity.
2.mencari of friends hanging out right,The points which I will explain in a good way with people
3. limit your play time with friends, that need to be made every day schedule, so you can control your play clock, eventually play could also lead to promiscuity, with a limit you will still be able to hang out but also keep your obligations as a student.
4.perbanyak your knowledge about healthy ways to get along, with you often read and discuss with your friends, you will be sensitive mode terhadapa ajajan friends who want to pull you into pergaulanya, because one of the reasons people get into it because of promiscuity lack of knowledge .
5.mendalami religion in accordance with the religious beliefs steeped anda.Dengan you will be more mature in making and decisive action that you think is good or bad, and of course, with all the consequences.

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